My Hope

I am often in communication, mostly with women, who have longed planned and hoped for a husband and children, but have found themselves unmarried and childless.  In my conversations, and my life experiences, I have struggled with the feelings that have come by the unfulfillment of these hopes and dreams.  I have come through a lot, and have thought a lot and have discussed a lot, and have realized, that my life is great!  It is full of joy and love, and amazing people and experiences.   I want to reach out to other women who are struggling through the places I have been and reach out a hand, and pull them out, and help them see their life from a new perspective, a happy perspective, a JOYFUL perspective.   It is taking what is handed to us, and rocking it!  Why not?  Why wallow, why sorrow, why drag ourselves down?  Bah...NO MORE!! Rise up!!!  Allow yourself to have joy!!!  To lift others!!!  To enjoy!!!  This doesn't mean you are giving up on marriage and children, it means you are making yourself and others around you better, and happier and making whatever comes more of a joy!  One of the amazing things about life, is how much more joy we feel for dreams fulfilled, when we are already joyful!!!!  So, hope it helps you, and I hope if you have any thoughts or ideas to share, you contact me, and I will post those also, for I would love more of a discussion than a monologue  :)